Space's "Brokenheartsville"

Where the female soldier earns the 'breaks hearts' medal.

Victim of today's typical unfaithful girlfriend?
...Need "cheap beer and a sympathetic ear?"
Then, brother, welcome ... except for the beer--get your own.
(...and if you have a contribution, e-mail me)

"See--Billy Idol gets it. I don't know why no one else does!"
-Adam Sandler, the Wedding Singer

How "love" has changed my life
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(My personal testimony)

How I learned the value of "love"
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From Cheaters.com

Songs that I take to Heart...literally

From some popular video game that is played at every bar, club, and singles party every Friday and Saturday night.
HER = gun, YOU = heart

While I won't bore you with my sorry, pathetic story (you're welcome), mine was a situation where "it was a question of when not if" until she backed out without reason...and then I met "the guy." I discovered it to be a pain worse than my heaviest bench press.

Not having dated (over seven years now) since then, I look around and see more heartache and pain in couples dating and in families--both real life and on TV--and conclude life is easier without this unnecessary pain. So I celebrate the joy of being single and alone and relate to the pain of other guys by hosting this web page.

Rather than trying to explain it with poems that go on until your ears turn blue and fall off, I'll let the bands that understand tell the story.

Click on the speakers...

I Don't Believe in Love - Queensryche

"She made a difference ... I guess she had a way ... Of making every night seem bright as day ... Now I walk in shadows ... never see the light ... She must have lied 'cause she never said goodbye"

Love Bites - Def Leppard

Love Hurts - Nazareth

Love Stinks - J. Geils Band

Alone Again - Dokken

"I said STAY but you turned away ... now the tears--they fall like rain ... alone again"

Behind Blue Eyes - Limp Bizkit

"No one knows what its like ... To feel these feelings ... Like i do, and I blame you"

Blaze of Glory - Bon Jovi

"Well I've seen love come, I've seen it shot down ... I've seen it die in vain."

Blood and Fire - Type O Negative

"I always thought we'd be together ... And that our love could not be better ... Well with no warning you were gone ... I still don't know what went wrong ... You don't know what I've been through"

"I see your face in every flame ... With no answers I have only myself to blame. Of all the women I have know - they're not you ... I'd rather be alone."

Boys of Summer - Don Henley

"Thought I knew what love was--what did I know? Those days are gone forever. I should just let 'em go..."

Brokenheartsville - Joe Nichols

"She waved goodbye ... Love's gone to hell"

Changes - Black Sabbath

"I feel unhappy ... I feel so sad ... I lost the best friend ... that I ever had"

"Now all my days ... are filled with tears ... Wish I could go back ... And change these years"

Come Again - Damn Yankees

"Been so long since I've seen you girl ... Swear I've been around the world"

"Every room is an empty space ... In the darkness I see your face..."

Every Rose has its Thorn - Poison

"And now I hear you found somebody new, and that I never meant that much to you. To hear that tears me up inside and to see you cuts me like a knife."

Fool For Your Loving - Whitesnake

"I gave my heart and you tore it apart..."

Foolish Beat - Debbie Gibson

"I could never love again the way that I loved you
I could never cry again like I did when I left you
And when we said goodbye,
Oh the look in your eyes
Just left me beside myself without your heart
I could never love again now that we're apart"

Fractured Love - Def Leppard

"I feel like a king that has lost his crown ... And now I stand here alone"

Girls Ain't Nothing But Trouble - D.J. Jazzy Jeff

Going Crazy - Natalie

"Ever since the day you went away, and left me lonely and cold, my life just hasn't been the same, oh baby no..."

Goodbye - Hootie and the Blowfish

"Now love is gone and you’re into someone far away..."

"I never thought the day would come ... When I would see his hand, not mine ... Holding onto yours"

Hard Habit to Break - Chicago

"I guess I thought you'd be here forever... another illusion I chose to create."

Harden my Heart - Quarterflash

Have You Ever Needed Someone So Bad - Def Leppard

"Have you ever needed someone ... you just couldn't have?"

"Have you ever tried so hard--that your world just fell apart...?"

Headed for a Heartbreak - Winger

"It's no mistake ... Don't you think I can feel the pain"

Heartbreaker - Pat Benetar

Heart the Hunter - Great White

"My heart's a hunter ... and love is a loser's game"

Headed for a Heartbreak - Winger

Heartbreak Station - Cinderella

"Waiting at the station, tears filling up my eyes, sometimes the pain you hide, burns like a fire inside ...she took the last train ... out of my heart"

He's Got You - Brooks & Dunn

"I thought we would always... be together... the love we'd share would last forever... once I was your one and only... now I sit... Mr. Lonely."

Hero - Nickelback

"Someone told me love will all save us ... But how can that be--look what love gave us: a world full of killing and blood-spilling. That world never came."

Hole in my Soul - Aerosmith

"Tell me how it feels to be... the one who turns the knife inside of me."

"Cause your love's like a thorn without a rose... yea... yeeeeeeaaaaaaaa..."

House of Broken Love - Great White

How Do You Sleep At Night - Wade Hayes

"I haven't had a good night's sleep in weeks now thanks to you."

How Soon is Now? - The Smiths

"When you say it's gonna happen 'now' ... well, when exactly do you mean?"

"See I've already waited too long ... and all my hope is gone"

I Hate Myself for Losing You - Kelly Clarkson

I Hate Myself For Loving You - Joan Jett

I Saw Red - Warrant

"My heart just spilled onto the floor.. and I didn't need to see his face. I saw yours."

"I saw red and then I closed the door."

I'd rather miss you - Little Texas

"...and if I have to choose between living without you and learning to love someone new... then I'd rather miss you."

I'll never get over you getting over me - Expose

"I know that I ought to find someone new ... But all I find is myself always thinking of you."

"I know that I should get on with my life ... but a life lived without you could never be right."

In My Dreams - Dokken

"What can I say or do ... You won't come back, we're through

"I've realized too late ... That, baby, your love has turned away"

It must've been Love - Roxette

"It must've been love... but it's over now... it was all that I wanted... now I'm livin' without."

It's a Heartache - Trick Pony

"It's a heartache, Nothin' but a heartache: Hits you when it's too late, Hits you when you're down."

"It's a fool's game, Nothin' but a fool's game: Standing in the cold rain, Feeling like a clown."

Life Goes On - Poison

"I felt this before, now I feel it again... no matter I try, this feeling won't end..."

"But one fear I kept to myself... how I prayed that you loved no one else"

"If you only knew... how much I miss you."

Long Cold Winter - Cinderella

Love's a Loaded Gun - Alice Cooper

"Sometimes love's a loaded gun... and it shoots to kill."

Might As Well Be On Mars - Alice Cooper

"You've turned my world into a dark and lonely place"

"I never knew that tears could sting."

Miles Away - Winger

"nothing left of what we had ... just when I needed you the most ... you were miles away"

"but now you're gone and I'm ... so tired of being alone ... with only your promises"

My Immortal - Evanescence

"These wounds won't seem to heal ... This pain is just too real ... There's just too much that time cannot erase"

Now You're Gone - Whitesnake

"Now you're gone ... I can feel my heart is breaking ... An' I can't go on ... when I think of the love that you've taken"

"But, now you're gone ... There's an emptiness closing around me ... An' I can't go on ... When all I have left is the memory"

One More Minute - Weird Al Yankovic

"Cause I'm stranded all alone in the gas station of love and I have to use the self-service pumps."

Poison - Alice Cooper

"Your cruel ... device ... your blood ... like ice. One look ... could kill ... my pain ... your thrill..."

Romanticide - Combo Audio

She's in Love - Mark Wills

"Best of friends don't mean that much when that phone call comes to tell you... she's in love."

Shot Through The Heart - Bon Jovi

"Shot through the heart, as I lay there alone In the dark, through the heart ... It's all part of this game that we call love"

Show me the Meaning of Being Lonely - Backstreet Boys

"Show me the meaning of being lonely ... Is this the feeling I need to walk with ... Tell me why I can't be there where you are"

Smoke Rings in the Dark - Gary Allen

"I know I must be going ... cause love's already gone..."

"And all I'm takin' with me ... are pieces of my heart..."

"I'll just touch your face ... and drift away ... like smoke rings in the dark."

Songs About Rain - Gary Allen

"Today I heard you got a new last name ... I sure didn't know it was gonna hit me this way"

"'Cause when I let you go ... Looks like lonely was all that I got"

Starsign - Apoptygma

"I'll miss you my love, but it's about time ... that this world goes up in flames."

"I'm waiting for a sign ... to leave this place behind ... where no one knows my name"

Tainted Love - Soft Cell

"Sometimes I feel I've got to ... run away, I've got to ... get away, from the pain that you drive into the heart of me"

Tell me I was Dreaming - Travis Tritt

The Long Goodbye - Brooks and Dunn

"I know they say if you don’t come back again ... Then it’s meant to be (so they say)"

"Those words don’t pull me through ... Cause I’m still in love with you"

The Race Is On - Sawyer Brown

"I feel tears wellin' up cold deep inside like my heart's sprung a big break..."

"And a stab of loneliness sharp and painful that I may never shake..."

Too Late for Love - Def Leppard

Unbreak My Heart - Toni Braxton

"Un-do this hurt you caused ... When you walked out the door And walked outta my life ... Un-cry these tears I cried so many nights ..."

Untitled - Simple Plan

"And I can’t stand the pain
And I can’t make it go away
I'M SICK OF THIS LIFE
I just wanna start all over again"

What She's Doing Now - Garth Brooks

"Cause what she's doin' now is tearin' me apart ... Fillin' up my mind and emptying my heart"

When Love Dies - Brooks & Dunn

"Yesterday may be dead and gone but the past won't go away."

Whiskey Lullaby - Brad Paisley

"She broke his heart, he spent his whole life tryin' to forget."

"We found him with his face down in the pillow ... With a note that said I'll love her 'til I die."

Why Can't I have you - The Cars

"...just one more time.. to touch you... just one more time.. to tell you ... you're on my mind."

"Baby--why can't I have you? You're breakin' my heart in two... you know what I'm goin' through?"

Wicked Game - Chris Issac

"What a wicked game to play, to make me feel this way"

"What a wicked thing to do, to let me dream of you"

"What a wicked thing to say, you never felt this way"

"What a wicked thing to do, to make me dream of you..."

Wish I Didn't Know Now - Toby Keith

"Yeah, I wish somehow I didnt know now what I didn't know then"

You Don't Love Me Anymore - Weird Al Yankovic

"You slammed my face down on the barbeque grill ... now my scars are all healing but my heart never will"

"Why did you disconnect the brakes on my car? ... that kind of thing is hard to ignore..."

You give Love a Bad Name - Bon Jovi

"You promise me heaven and put me through hell"

You Keep me Hanging On - Kim Wilde

"You still just wanna be friends... but how can we still be friends when seeing you only breaks my heart again?"

You'll Think of Me - Keith Urban

"But thoughts of us kept keeping me awake ... Ever since you found yourself in someone else's arms ... There's nothing left to say"

"Take your records, take your freedom ... Take your memories I don't need'em ... Take your space and take your reasons ... And take your cat and leave my sweater ... 'Cause we have nothing left to weather"

You're Bringin' on the Heartbreak - Def Leppard

The Hollywood(-Left) Viewpoint

Click here for the Microsoft-format movie

Some cry while others destroy public telephones. See Roz Russell from Night Court (the best sitcom there ever was) demonstrate how I acted when I was told "she" later became engaged to "the other guy."
(562k .WMV)

THE
"WEDDING SINGER" SYNDROME
See, Adam Sandler knows EXACTLY what I'm talking about!
(either that or the script for this movie was stolen from my personal life in '97-'98..)

He's pure 80s like me
He had plans to get married (like I did over the phone that night before she went to ROTC boot camp when she said, "It's not a question of if but when" and "I feel the same way")
Linda changed her mind later (like she did)
And then it was worst moment of his life (like it is mine)

I couldn't have said better myself...
Rock on, Adam! Rock on! (84k .mp3)

THE "STARSHIP TROOPERS"
PHONOMENON

It was just like in the movie...
Carmen on the left looks kinda like "her" and Rico on the right looks kinda like me. In the movie, boy wants girl, girl loved boy but told him she couldn't commit because she wanted to devote her life to the military... and finds another guy. Boy walks off bitter but always wanting her.

ACCURACY TO MY SITUATION: 100%

"Funny how they always want to be friends right after they rip your guts out."

-Jake Busey,
STARSHIP TROOPERS

Even (the king of rock) Weird Al Yankovic suffered in

Notice the pattern ... Al happy before...

Al in love
(51k .mp3)

UHF

Click on the picture to either side!
<-- before

after -->

Al dumped
(76k .mp3)

"Emotions.... there _____ __ __ _ ___ _______ ____."
(Fill in the blanks or click HERE for the 10k .MP3 answer)

-Sylvester Stallone,
JUDGE DREDD

1 Corinthians 7:37-38: "But if a man has the willpower not to marry and decides that he doesn't need to and won't, he has made a wise decision. So the person who marries does well, and the person who doesn't marry does even better."

--New International Version (NIV) Bible

However, other bands are persuasive in giving hope...

...of yet having that one person
(Click on the hearts)

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